This few months the one thing that i have learned is that, the only way for you to get out of it is to face it and accepting it. it sound very easy to do but when thing happen to you is another story. That's why i have decided to do this blog and going through all this again, viewing the photos of the accident in particular. I even cry at the time of creating this blog. But still telling myself that "you have to do it and face it". I will be leaving Kuching for good, this is another reason for me to do this simple blog. I will always keep it updated no matter where am i and this is easiest way for my family and friend to contact me.
The accident happened on 17-05-2007 just a day right after they celebrated my birthday on the 16th. It was around 5pm i received a call from one of news reporter asking am i the relative to Mdm Law Siaw Hui (my wife) then he told me that she have pasted away in a road accident. At the point of time i keep on shouting with no reason and my mind are totally blank, than the faces of my kids keep coming into my mind. What happen to my kids, are they safe ? As the guy didnot tell me about my kids. Then i started to cry and together with my in-law, we rush to the hospital. On the way we received the news that four of them have left us and one still in the emergency room. I talk to myself that, please god be one my kid. I knew it was very selfish to think that way, but with the kind of condition..... I hope my sister-in-law will forgive me for that.
But nothing we can change or do, god have taken my wife (Grace), My daughter (Winifred and Georgina), my mother in-law and not many people knew that my wife had already pregnant for two and a half months. We are getting ready to receive our third child on 22nd of Dec 2007.