I lost a best friend & his 3 kids who were very close with me, under a tragic drowning incident. I was under manic depression especially within a month I also lost my brother & dad. It takes time & space to heal & good support fr remaining family members & friends. Life has to go on & now I could come to terms to the tragic loss. Use whatever inner strength left within u.
My bf past away on a accident too... i didn;t know till after 2 days of the accident as we didn't announce our relationship. In fact, i only find out his death through his friend. It had been 6 years.... and i miss him every beat of time... in fact this is the feeling that keep me alive as i know... he is always by my side.....
Hey, glad to hear that you can accept the truth and began a new life. I know it's not easy but you're doing a great job by appreciate yourself and not involving in any bad things. Hope that you can keep on going with your life.
I am so sorry to hear the news. It's been almost one year now and my heart sank when I read your blog. My condolences to you and your family. Anyway, be strong. May God bless their souls. Amen.
This few months the one thing that i have learned is that, the only way for you to get out of it is to face it and accepting it. it sound very easy to do but when thing happen to you is another story. That's why i have decided to do this blog and going through all this again, viewing the photos of the accident in particular. I even cry at the time of creating this blog. But still telling myself that "you have to do it and face it". I will be leaving Kuching for good, this is another reason for me to do this simple blog. I will always keep it updated no matter where am i and this is easiest way for my family and friend to contact me.
The accident happened on 17-05-2007 just a day right after they celebrated my birthday on the 16th. It was around 5pm i received a call from one of news reporter asking am i the relative to Mdm Law Siaw Hui (my wife) then he told me that she have pasted away in a road accident. At the point of time i keep on shouting with no reason and my mind are totally blank, than the faces of my kids keep coming into my mind. What happen to my kids, are they safe ? As the guy didnot tell me about my kids. Then i started to cry and together with my in-law, we rush to the hospital. On the way we received the news that four of them have left us and one still in the emergency room. I talk to myself that, please god be one my kid. I knew it was very selfish to think that way, but with the kind of condition..... I hope my sister-in-law will forgive me for that.
But nothing we can change or do, god have taken my wife (Grace), My daughter (Winifred and Georgina), my mother in-law and not many people knew that my wife had already pregnant for two and a half months. We are getting ready to receive our third child on 22nd of Dec 2007.
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I lost a best friend & his 3 kids who were very close with me, under a tragic drowning incident. I was under manic depression especially within a month I also lost my brother & dad. It takes time & space to heal & good support fr remaining family members & friends. Life has to go on & now I could come to terms to the tragic loss. Use whatever inner strength left within u.
My bf past away on a accident too... i didn;t know till after 2 days of the accident as we didn't announce our relationship. In fact, i only find out his death through his friend. It had been 6 years.... and i miss him every beat of time... in fact this is the feeling that keep me alive as i know... he is always by my side.....
Hey, glad to hear that you can accept the truth and began a new life. I know it's not easy but you're doing a great job by appreciate yourself and not involving in any bad things. Hope that you can keep on going with your life.
My deepest condolences . May you be blessed.
May God always bless you...
My deepest condolences.
Here's hoping to a blessed life for you and for you to gain the strengh to move on.
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Be strong. God Bless.
I am so sorry to hear the news. It's been almost one year now and my heart sank when I read your blog. My condolences to you and your family. Anyway, be strong. May God bless their souls. Amen.
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